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Sunday, February 8, 2009
Are Men Necessary?
Ms. Dowd starts off slowly, the first third of the book was a detailed listing of the woes of dating in New York. Nothing is as tortured and self serving as a long drawn out list of complaints about how hard it is to date in New York. I thought I may gain some sympathy for this type of thing since I'm geographically closer to New York than I was growing up, I know some New Yorkers and have been to the city. Unfortunately I haven't developed the sympathy that Ms. Dowd craves. If you move to a place where you have to make more than the average American in order to afford a one room studio chances are that the people you meet aren't going to be family oriented. I won't criticize Ms. Dowd too roundly however, since Sex and the City lasted for untold seasons, inspired a movie and is now going into sequels there is obviously a market for this type of lament, it just isn't me.
Things do manage to get interesting through the second half. Ms. Dowd puts her pulitzer prize winning skills to work and detail the political history of women in politics. It's a fascinating read. The political arena is the place where women's struggle to gain equal footing with men becomes public and it's a fascinating place to see how that is working out. She interweaves this tale with the tale of modern women who seeks Barbification. This book was written a bit before the Clinton Campaign but how do you reconcile a culture where you can see Hillary Clinton almost becoming the most powerful person in the free world on one channel and then flip over to see the Real Housewives of Orange County spend fortunes on Botox and breast implants?
If you want to be a hit at your next cocktail party I would recommend this book. If you don't live in New York and want to skip the first half though I won't tell anyone.